The babymoon is becoming ever popular. What is a babymoon? Well, according to some it’s the last holiday taken by an expectant couple before their little one arrives while for others it’s a vacation enjoyed with the children in place of the honeymoon you perhaps never had the chance to take.
Whatever your definition of what it actually is – with a new born baby or just before he or she arrives – a relaxing break is always welcome. If you’re holidaying with children then a specialist company such as totstoo.com is recommended – they offer a wide range of luxury holidays tailored for parents travelling with kids. If you’re holidaying with bump in tow, here are a few things to bear in mind:
Relax and unwind
Holidays are meant to be enjoyable – that’s the whole point. So you must take the chance to put your feet up and enjoy some peace and quiet. Whether it’s sitting by the sea with a cocktail (or a non-alcoholic version) or swimming in a hotel pool there are plenty of ways to enjoy the tranquillity of your surroundings away from the hectic routine of home. You probably need a well-deserved rest, so don’t feel bad about doing very little for a few days.
Enjoy time as a couple
With a little one to care for 24 hours a day, couple time can go out the window. Watching movies in bed and going out for dinner become forgotten luxuries for a while, so enjoy some special moments together while you still can. Going out for a three-course meal is always nice (the baby needs to eat after all) or you could head out for long walks along the beach. You could also use this time to talk through any worries or concerns you might both be having but don’t forget to simply sit back and soak up each other’s company too.
Do something new
One of the best things to do when you’re pregnant is to write an achievable bucket list of everything you want to do before the baby arrives. This could include posing for professional photographs or simply painting your favourite seaside view. Once you’ve produced the list, aim to tick a few things off during your babymoon. Having something to aim for will give you a purpose during those 40 plus weeks and will also add a bit of structure to your time away – not that you need a strict itinerary, mind.
Sightsee
If you’ve got the energy, why not get up out of bed and sightsee? Simple things such as taking pictures or enjoying a leisurely stroll around a market can become extremely difficult with a baby in tow, so make the most of it while you’re still pregnant. Of course, climbing a steep mountain might be out of the question but so long as you feel okay don’t be afraid to be a little adventurous – just don’t push yourself too hard and take regular breaks.
Fly safe
There are many wonderful places to explore while expecting but if you’re planning on jetting off into the sun, always seek medical advice. Get the thumbs up to travel before checking with your airline to see if they’ll let you fly. Many airlines will allow you to travel well into your last trimester, but it’s worth finding out for sure as you might need a doctor’s note in order to board the plane. What’s more, don’t forget to drink plenty while in the air and walk about often to avoid getting blood clots and such like.
Babymoons are a great way to relax before the big occasion, so get planning and make memories to last a lifetime.