In this article we’re examining the mental load in modern families to under the weight placed on our relationships.
In the hustle and bustle of modern life, the dynamics of families have undergone significant transformations. While there have been positive strides towards more equitable gender roles, a subtle and often overlooked burden persists—the mental load.
This hidden factor, contributing to stress in relationships, can significantly impact the overall health of both couples and families. While the legal reasons for divorce have been somewhat downplayed for many divorcing couples since the introduction of no-fault divorce in April 2022, numerous individuals still reference these reasons when initiating the divorce process.
In this article, we’ll explore the various pressures and tensions that can lead to the dissolution of families and relationships in 2024.
Possible Legal Reasons for Divorce
Until April 2022, a couple wishing to divorce would need to satisfy one or more of five set criteria which were:
- Adultery – One or both partners can state evidence that the other has been having a pre-marital affair or has engaged in sexual intercourse with a third party.
- Unreasonable behaviour – One or both partners have been engaging in behaviour which has made the marriage untenable; such as alcoholism, drug use, abuse and / or violence or neglect.
- Desertion – One partner has removed him or herself from the marital home.
- Separation for more than two years – If a couple has lived apart for two years and both parties agree to the divorce.
- Separation for more than five years – If a couple has lived apart for five years a divorce may be granted even if both partners are not in agreement.
What Modern Issues Affect Relationships
Although the previous legal criteria for divorce provide insight into factors that can lead to the breakdown of a relationship, the contemporary world is filled with additional stressors. In this section, we will delve into some of these contributing factors.
Many couples argue about money – particula
rly at the moment as the energy and cost of living crises rage on in the UK. If one partner is spending more than the other or spending recklessly, this can quickly lead to a relationship meltdown if not .
We now live in a world in which our lives are often governed by our devices and, while technology can be a wonderful thing, it can also spell the death knell for a relationship.
Whether it’s a spouse who is forever connected to their work thanks to the internet, or a partner who spends the evening scrolling social media, digital distractions can play a significant role in the implosion of a marriage.
In the past, family life followed a relatively straightforward path where couples were expected to marry, have children, and remain together indefinitely. However, contemporary dynamics are considerably more intricate.
In many instances, one or both partners may bring children from previous relationships into the marriage, while simultaneously building a new family together.